Request For Marriage
Marriage is a sacred institution and the basis of human society. The Bible defines marriage as the union of one man and one woman in a lifetime commitment mutually exclusive to each other. It is to be entered only after careful consideration and must be held in high honour. The marriage vows are of all, most solemn. They constitute vows not only between a man and a woman in the presence of witnesses, but vows made before God the Creator and Giver of Life. God instituted marriage when he said "for this cause shall a man leave his mother and father, and shall cleave (for life) unto his wife, and the two shall be one. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder". It is with this understanding that we perform the marriage ceremony.
Both the prospective bride and groom are asked to separately complete the following questions which will assist us in the required pre-marital counseling classes.
1) Surname Given Names: ______________________________________________________________________________
Address : ______________________________________________________________________________
Street: ______________________________________________________________________________
City : ______________________________________________________________________________
Province : ______________________________________________________________________________
Postal Code : __________________________________________ Telephone : _______________________________________
2) Marital Status: [ ] Never Married [ ] Widow(er) [ ] Divorced
3) Religion/Denomination: : ______________________________________________________________________________
4) Date of Birth: Month : ______ Day: ________ Year : ___________
5) Citizenship: : ______________________________________________________________________________
6) Place of Birth: Province (or Country) : ________________________________________________________
7) Occupation: : _____________________________________________________________________
8) Name of Father: Surname: __________________ Given Names: _________________________________________________
Father's Birthplace : ______________________________________________________________
9) Maiden Name of Mother: Surname: __________________ Given Names: _________________________________________________
Mother's Birthplace : ________________________________________________________
10) Are your parents in favour of your marriage? : ________________________________________________________
Parents Phone Number: : ________________________________________________________
11) Are you willing to enter this relationship "till death do you part"? : ________________________________________________________
12) Why do you want a Christian marriage ceremony? : _________________________________________________
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13) Are you a Christian? : ________________________________________________________
When did you become a Christian? : ________________________________________________________
14) What do you think it means to be a Christian? _________________________________________________
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15) What are some of the teachings about marriage that can be found in the Bible? ___________________________________
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16) Have you ever read the Bible and prayed with your intended partner? [ ] Yes [ ] No [ ] Regularly
17) What do you expect to get out of this marriage? ________________________________________________
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What do you expect to put into this marriage? _________________________________________________
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18) How have you proved your love to your fiancée or fiancé? _________________________________________________
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19) What Church do you presently attend? ______________________________________________________________________
20) Have you sought to be married in another church and been refused? ____________________________________________________
21) Why would you like to be married in this church? _________________________________________________
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22) How long have you known your fiancée or fiancé? _____________________________________________________________
23) Are there any reasons that you know of why you shouldn’t get married? _________________________________________________
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24) Are you willing to attend a minimum of 3 counseling sessions with the Pastor? ___________________________________________
25) Do you have a date set for your wedding? If so, when? ___________________________________________
26) Is pregnancy a present result of your relationship? ___________________________________________
I certify that the information noted on this application is true and accurate:
Signature: _________________________________ Date: ______________
------------------------- Return to the Pastor or church office for processing---------------------
The church office/pastor will arrange a time to meet together to review your information
in order to determine the availability of church staff and church facility
in assisting in the performing of your marriage.