Request For Marriage

Marriage is a sacred institution and the basis of human society. The Bible defines marriage as the union of one man and one woman in a lifetime commitment mutually exclusive to each other. It is to be entered only after careful consideration and must be held in high honour. The marriage vows are of all, most solemn. They constitute vows not only between a man and a woman in the presence of witnesses, but vows made before God the Creator and Giver of Life. God instituted marriage when he said "for this cause shall a man leave his mother and father, and shall cleave (for life) unto his wife, and the two shall be one. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder". It is with this understanding that we perform the marriage ceremony.

 

Both the prospective bride and groom are  asked to separately complete the following questions which will assist us in the required pre-marital counseling classes.

1) Surname Given Names: ______________________________________________________________________________

Address : ______________________________________________________________________________

Street: ______________________________________________________________________________

City : ______________________________________________________________________________

Province : ______________________________________________________________________________

Postal Code : __________________________________________   Telephone : _______________________________________ 

2) Marital Status:  [ ] Never Married       [  ] Widow(er)            [   ]  Divorced

3) Religion/Denomination: : ______________________________________________________________________________

4) Date of Birth: Month :  ______     Day:  ________   Year :  ___________

5) Citizenship: : ______________________________________________________________________________

6) Place of Birth: Province (or Country) : ________________________________________________________

7) Occupation:  : _____________________________________________________________________

8) Name of Father: Surname: __________________   Given Names:   _________________________________________________

                                    Father's Birthplace : ______________________________________________________________

9) Maiden Name of Mother: Surname: __________________   Given Names:   _________________________________________________

                                    Mother's  Birthplace : ________________________________________________________

10) Are your parents in favour of your marriage? : ________________________________________________________

                                Parents Phone Number: : ________________________________________________________

11) Are you willing to enter this relationship "till death do you part"? : ________________________________________________________

12) Why do you want a Christian marriage ceremony? :  _________________________________________________

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13) Are you a Christian?  : ________________________________________________________

                        When did you become a Christian? : ________________________________________________________

14) What do you think it means to be a Christian? _________________________________________________

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15) What are some of the teachings about marriage that can be found in the Bible?  ___________________________________

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16) Have you ever read the Bible and prayed with your intended partner?    [   ] Yes         [   ] No                     [   ] Regularly

17) What do you expect to get out of this marriage? ________________________________________________

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What do you expect to put into this marriage?  _________________________________________________

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18) How have you proved your love to your fiancée or fiancé?  _________________________________________________

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19) What Church do you presently attend?  ______________________________________________________________________

20) Have you sought to be married in another church and been refused? ____________________________________________________

21) Why would you like to be married in this church?  _________________________________________________

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22) How long have you known your fiancée or fiancé? _____________________________________________________________

23) Are there any reasons that you know of why you shouldn’t get married?  _________________________________________________

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24) Are you willing to attend a minimum of 3 counseling sessions with the Pastor? ___________________________________________

25) Do you have a date set for your wedding? If so, when?  ___________________________________________

26) Is pregnancy a present result of your relationship?  ___________________________________________

 

I certify that the information noted on this application is true and accurate:

Signature: _________________________________ Date: ______________

 

------------------------- Return to the Pastor or church office for processing---------------------

The church office/pastor will arrange a time to meet together to review your information

in order to determine the availability of church staff and church facility

in assisting in the performing of your marriage.